There are three axes that help a person enjoy life.
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The first and most important of these axes is the focus of the existence of goals. .
There are many ways to create goals, including:
Imagination and ambition.
Question friends and relatives.
Reading books.
Building on the successes of others.
Consider the stories of successful people.
Biographical documentaries of the heroes.
All of these methods and suggestions help a person discover the ideas that interest him and interest him, in order to make them goals for his life, so use what suits you to determine your goals. .
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There are three important rules for setting personal goals:
The first law:
When adopting the goal, the basis is: What works for me may not work for others, and this goal is my choice, and I bear its consequences.
This law protects the self from criticism and interference that may affect and weaken a person. From the beginning we have to be clear with ourselves first and then with those around us that the goal is a personal choice.
The second law:
The goal is what develops and makes you happy, not what makes you happy.
One of the basics of having goals is that the goal is useful, measurable, specific, realistic, and has a clear duration.
Law Three:
There is no small goal and a big goal or important and unimportant goal.
Matter is relative; What you think is important, I may not see it important, and vice versa, the goal is what you see as a goal according to your capabilities and abilities. Also, the clarity of the priorities of the individual helps to clarify the goal, and this matter helps to protect the target from negative influences, if any.
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It is interesting to note that when I dropped the “goal setting” axis on the concept of enjoyment in life, I found the following:
I did not see, did not hear, and did not read about a successful or enjoyment of his life devoid of daily and annual goals.
Goal helps focus on what I want.
The goal gives time meaning and sweetness.
The goal contributes to finding daily activities.
The goal is a profitable time investment.
Goal gives a feeling of uniqueness.
The goal affirms self primacy.
The goal sparks energy and enthusiasm.
The goal leads you to continuous learning.
The goal helps to achieve psychological balance.
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These ten points are sufficient to create satisfaction and balance for the individual’s life, if he makes it well, and this satisfaction and balance helps to enjoy life.
